Sometimes I may not be the best..
and I know there are times when I get irritated with your ways or I get upset when you are late...and times when you "disturb" me....and i throw small minor tantrums and how u'll think of ways to make me smile and not get mad at you...times when i upset you but u nv get mad at me.
Thank you for loving me so much...making an effort to wake up from your sleep to pick me up from work even tho u slept late...sending me from 1 end of the world to another end even tho it's late and u have to travel back alone...and sleep later den usual on a weekday...and the many lil things you've done for me...
Nv tasted love any sweeter den this...and tough as the road ahead may be....I am willing to go thru it all just to be with u. =)
4 Days MC
And my body has finally given in to stress,fatigue and overworking....after 3 weeks of being unwell...it got so bad tt i had to be given 2days mc...and followed by another 2 days....sure isn't easy juggling so much at the same time...but it's all worth it.
September
September is fast coming to an end. So much has happened this month...but it's been so meaningful and fruitful.
Just like the past two F1 that took place, I had to organise some countdown activities..It's been so bz and hectic because on top of work, there was the exams to worry about. Furthermore, another event got pushed back to this month and it had to happen on the same day as 1 of my papers. So...fell sick for 2 weeks....and...i'm really looking forward to rest after F1.
2 events this week...1 just passed...another to come on thursday.
On a happier note, I finally passed my Final Thoery!! looking forward to the practical test!
Just like the past two F1 that took place, I had to organise some countdown activities..It's been so bz and hectic because on top of work, there was the exams to worry about. Furthermore, another event got pushed back to this month and it had to happen on the same day as 1 of my papers. So...fell sick for 2 weeks....and...i'm really looking forward to rest after F1.
2 events this week...1 just passed...another to come on thursday.
On a happier note, I finally passed my Final Thoery!! looking forward to the practical test!
Saw this on someone's note...decided to post it.
This is a very good article. Those who are still single may learn something from here...
Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage & relationship ...
DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the right person?'
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?'
In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their
idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to
DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept off my feet.' Think about the imagery of that __expression.
It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened
TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's
idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will
notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the
euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work,
a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVERjust happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression 'the labor of love.'
Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship
WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can 'make'
love.
Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... Not just a feeling.
Remember always this:
'God determines who walks into your life.It is up to you to decide who you let to walk away,who you let to stay, and who you refuse to let go.
Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage & relationship ...
DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the right person?'
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?'
In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.
Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their
idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to
DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept off my feet.' Think about the imagery of that __expression.
It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened
TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's
idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will
notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?' And as you and your spouse reflect on the
euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work,
a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.
But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could.
And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVERjust happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression 'the labor of love.'
Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship
WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can 'make'
love.
Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... Not just a feeling.
Remember always this:
'God determines who walks into your life.It is up to you to decide who you let to walk away,who you let to stay, and who you refuse to let go.
Finally!
The truth is finally out...to be able to tell my dad whatever the outcome may be.....to tell my bros before it goes public...i no longer have to worry over anything.
Tho the reaction is somewhat what I expected....it still saddens me to know tt i have to overcome so many obstacles....go thru all tt i need to face....but if it's all worth it...den i'm willing to press on for it!
And I hope tt it will draw us closer...
Tho the reaction is somewhat what I expected....it still saddens me to know tt i have to overcome so many obstacles....go thru all tt i need to face....but if it's all worth it...den i'm willing to press on for it!
And I hope tt it will draw us closer...
the event's just next week....so work's all piled together again...plus the big move on 10th aug....going for my lasik on the 6th...
i'm starting to get busy again..with whatever free time i have after work spent in class...assignments and revision's gotta start soon....accounts...oh i dread it so much..
weekends have become more meaningful and well spent.... shall talk bout it in time to come...and now..it's back to work!
i'm starting to get busy again..with whatever free time i have after work spent in class...assignments and revision's gotta start soon....accounts...oh i dread it so much..
weekends have become more meaningful and well spent.... shall talk bout it in time to come...and now..it's back to work!
tt wonderful feeling...
it was so nice...being able to catch up with u again gal..
memories of what we went thru together keeps running through my mind...the times when it was us agst pork chop...times when we had to give in to her unreasonable actions....and when we were both transferred reluctantly to another branch.we had to fend for ourselves....start from scratch again...and get thru those unwelcoming actions...and getting used to a new environment.times when we know our boss is not really on our side..
yet....you were like the older sister who gave me advise....and looked after me. Taught me nv to trust pple so easily...and to stand firm...hang in there no matter how the world judges u....because the truth will be out someday...and someday..u will see ur rewards....
thank you for such a wonderful friendship! and i'm so glad...i managed to clear things up with u...it's been in my heart for so long.....i'm so glad..we cld clear things up!
Really really cherish this friendship and i can't wait to catch up with u again! hugz!
memories of what we went thru together keeps running through my mind...the times when it was us agst pork chop...times when we had to give in to her unreasonable actions....and when we were both transferred reluctantly to another branch.we had to fend for ourselves....start from scratch again...and get thru those unwelcoming actions...and getting used to a new environment.times when we know our boss is not really on our side..
yet....you were like the older sister who gave me advise....and looked after me. Taught me nv to trust pple so easily...and to stand firm...hang in there no matter how the world judges u....because the truth will be out someday...and someday..u will see ur rewards....
thank you for such a wonderful friendship! and i'm so glad...i managed to clear things up with u...it's been in my heart for so long.....i'm so glad..we cld clear things up!
Really really cherish this friendship and i can't wait to catch up with u again! hugz!
weekend....i have 2 weekend of pictures to post...but....been kinda tied up recently with work and stuff....lessons are crazier and heavier this sem...but kinda excited.....it's weird how things are so different now. I'm learning to appreciate every single day of my life....staying positive...as much as i can.
Narrowed it down from 3 to 1. It just may be a good thing....*crossing my fingers*
Narrowed it down from 3 to 1. It just may be a good thing....*crossing my fingers*
my weekend
I had a tiring but fun and memorable weekend. Kinda missing the adrenaline rush from it all.
My first stint as a wedding emcee went pretty smoothly...thank God....the sabos for the gatecrash was entertaining and fun. Dinner was a bliss! Plus the 2 who brightens up my life now.....wat more can i say?
Outing to Marina Barrage...was...hot....but company was enjoyable...altho i was tired.
More pictures to come when i've time to upload them!
Prayer works
Everytime I'm down or when I feel like I'm losing it...or when things just dun seem to go right...
I know I've drifted away from God and I need to be close to Him again.
God's still faithful even when we are faithless. He's always there for us...and I went back to Him again yesterday...spending time praying and reading his word. Wat a Load of difference it made to my Monday Morning.
I know I've drifted away from God and I need to be close to Him again.
God's still faithful even when we are faithless. He's always there for us...and I went back to Him again yesterday...spending time praying and reading his word. Wat a Load of difference it made to my Monday Morning.
God Sent Angel
After a terrible, lousy day..i knew i had to do something that triggered off my temper. And the situation at work....it's not just the gen y symptom...i'm sure...
it is a wake up call for me to draw close to God again. i wanted tt too! desperately...but yet....as we always say..the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak...and as always...my rebellious nature has a hold over me.
So anyway....went to clarke quay with my couz...and after chilling out for awhile...one of em decided to join her frens and i ain't in the mood to socialise...so....left them 2 to continue partying while i took a cab home.
It was awesome! i nv like talking when i'm in the cab...but somehow...i was intrigued by the stuff in his car...and as we kept talking..we started talking bout christianity and stuff...and he shared so much with me...tt i knew God was answering the questions I had no answers to.
It still is a struggle for me....but...i'm glad he spoke....and the cab driver was the angel he sent.
So thank you
it is a wake up call for me to draw close to God again. i wanted tt too! desperately...but yet....as we always say..the spirit is willing but the flesh is weak...and as always...my rebellious nature has a hold over me.
So anyway....went to clarke quay with my couz...and after chilling out for awhile...one of em decided to join her frens and i ain't in the mood to socialise...so....left them 2 to continue partying while i took a cab home.
It was awesome! i nv like talking when i'm in the cab...but somehow...i was intrigued by the stuff in his car...and as we kept talking..we started talking bout christianity and stuff...and he shared so much with me...tt i knew God was answering the questions I had no answers to.
It still is a struggle for me....but...i'm glad he spoke....and the cab driver was the angel he sent.
So thank you
TS3!!
yes! finally caught TS3!! Thank goodness i didn't miss it and finally!!! went on a 3d version.a bit sua ku la....took me this long to view a movie in 3d.but it was damn good! awesoome! and I managed to get a pair of heels from pedro at a damn good price. wheeee! i'm all set to emcee nxt week! just tt...translation has not been done.shiate!
shld get daddy to vet before he flies off.........here comes THURSDAY!
shld get daddy to vet before he flies off.........here comes THURSDAY!
my arms are aching....like the "suan" and damn "nua" feeling.
Shiiiiat! i tot the muscle ache will recover after a day or two...never realise that Personal Training can be tt strenuous...or cld my continuous exercising be causing it to a slower recovery as well?
Hmmmm....but still...i'm gonna workout everyday these 2 weeks...
ouchy!
Shiiiiat! i tot the muscle ache will recover after a day or two...never realise that Personal Training can be tt strenuous...or cld my continuous exercising be causing it to a slower recovery as well?
Hmmmm....but still...i'm gonna workout everyday these 2 weeks...
ouchy!
almost lost my phone for good today.but thank God! managed to get it back..and boss was kind enuff to allow me to claim the taxi fare i had to pay for the driver to drive and return it to me! Just because i lost it while running a very impt errand.heh...
Feeeling super duper happy these few days....wheeeeee! started talking to A again....felt good...he's always got the gift of the gab...whatever he says....u just have to listen..like 50% of it.heh...but it was a nice feeling...to catch up with him again...can't wait to meet up with him.
J's goin HK for 2 weeks....but i'm still happy! Life goes on and i'm glad i'm moving on really well!
Thanks to E who's constantly been there for me too and always encouraging me..and remembering all my impt dates. u dunno how much tt means to me...but i really appreciate your thoughtfulness and the warmth it brings to me. so...thk u!
On a happier note...I have no friday lessons this coming sem and my time table looks better den last sem. But it's accounting! God...HELP ME!
Feeeling super duper happy these few days....wheeeeee! started talking to A again....felt good...he's always got the gift of the gab...whatever he says....u just have to listen..like 50% of it.heh...but it was a nice feeling...to catch up with him again...can't wait to meet up with him.
J's goin HK for 2 weeks....but i'm still happy! Life goes on and i'm glad i'm moving on really well!
Thanks to E who's constantly been there for me too and always encouraging me..and remembering all my impt dates. u dunno how much tt means to me...but i really appreciate your thoughtfulness and the warmth it brings to me. so...thk u!
On a happier note...I have no friday lessons this coming sem and my time table looks better den last sem. But it's accounting! God...HELP ME!
Finally!! time to upload all overdue pics.haha...FB's weird...i can't seem to upload any pics there! but oh well...shall blog from my most recent event to the last long ago one...
ANd so....i was off to Phuket last week! Such great rest! Wish i cld stay there for a month...oh....wat luxury!
our very first meal in phuket!
and after dinner....wat to do..but cam whore! heh
surprisingly, my bro agreed to take a shot with me!and he actually hates taking pictures. *grinz*
2nd day...shopping...and dad and bro went for the fish spa while i had a pedicure...no pictures...cos i needed to rush to the washroom straight after.haha
dinner at the hotel....the roasted chicken i had was pretty good..and cheap! plus associate discount...woohoo!
on the 3rd day....we travelled out to Phi Phi island...the ferry ride out there on the speedboat..is indeed a memorable ride to remember..i tot i was gonna die! haha
and we stopped at this lil small area for swimming...dad and mum weren't very confident and comfortable to go down...while bro wanted a dip..and so....the sister accompanied him.heh...i was pretty scared tho.
and it's cos of this tt i got a very bad sunburnt! i wanna be fair!! no more tanning for me!
yes....a narcisstic shot before i take my nap...
miss wee......we got our tour package thru her..my colleague's recommendation
as usual...went to get my suits done. spent out of my budget tho.oops! but the suits were really worth every cent! and I got a shirt done too!
our final night's dinner....it was yummy and cheap!
just love where i stayed! and it was so cheap...thanks to where i'm working! heh
totally hated how i looked red and sad here..it's as if i cried...and makeup cldn't cover up the burnt!
and final camwhoring moment before we check out!
It was a great experience and exposure tho. Y and I were like the only 2 chinese there....and dear S had to translate whatever was said for us. Thanks for your patience! I learnt something new and was exposed to a different culture and tradition. Thanks F for inviting me! Looking forward to your wedding! ;)
ANd so....i was off to Phuket last week! Such great rest! Wish i cld stay there for a month...oh....wat luxury!
our very first meal in phuket!
and after dinner....wat to do..but cam whore! heh
surprisingly, my bro agreed to take a shot with me!and he actually hates taking pictures. *grinz*
2nd day...shopping...and dad and bro went for the fish spa while i had a pedicure...no pictures...cos i needed to rush to the washroom straight after.haha
dinner at the hotel....the roasted chicken i had was pretty good..and cheap! plus associate discount...woohoo!
on the 3rd day....we travelled out to Phi Phi island...the ferry ride out there on the speedboat..is indeed a memorable ride to remember..i tot i was gonna die! haha
and we stopped at this lil small area for swimming...dad and mum weren't very confident and comfortable to go down...while bro wanted a dip..and so....the sister accompanied him.heh...i was pretty scared tho.
and it's cos of this tt i got a very bad sunburnt! i wanna be fair!! no more tanning for me!
yes....a narcisstic shot before i take my nap...
miss wee......we got our tour package thru her..my colleague's recommendation
as usual...went to get my suits done. spent out of my budget tho.oops! but the suits were really worth every cent! and I got a shirt done too!
our final night's dinner....it was yummy and cheap!
just love where i stayed! and it was so cheap...thanks to where i'm working! heh
totally hated how i looked red and sad here..it's as if i cried...and makeup cldn't cover up the burnt!
and final camwhoring moment before we check out!
Next: Ruthie's Bday!!
as usual, celebrated my dear fren's bday....we are like sisters!
got her masks tt'll will tide her till her BIG DAY!! and so sad...i can't be there...
i just love macarons!
love this pasta too!
and another bday celebration for dear geri.. =)
had a cousins' gathering...cos miss prissy is here for a month...and it's been almost a decade since we last saw her...we have all...grown up. =)
and my bro was sharing bout how the photographer for his wedding shots was instructing them on which angles to turn and pose and stuff...and so..we go them to do this!
and females knew this trade secret long ago! heh
so we decided tt the ladies shld do something more MAN! haha
Next UP!: Farah's ROM
as usual, celebrated my dear fren's bday....we are like sisters!
got her masks tt'll will tide her till her BIG DAY!! and so sad...i can't be there...
i just love macarons!
love this pasta too!
and another bday celebration for dear geri.. =)
had a cousins' gathering...cos miss prissy is here for a month...and it's been almost a decade since we last saw her...we have all...grown up. =)
and my bro was sharing bout how the photographer for his wedding shots was instructing them on which angles to turn and pose and stuff...and so..we go them to do this!
and females knew this trade secret long ago! heh
so we decided tt the ladies shld do something more MAN! hahaNext UP!: Farah's ROM
And it was the very next day after my philippines trip. I was dead tired man!
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