so...it's meeting up with pple over lunch and tanning and jogging this week!
it's been fun!i'm totally enjoying myself.today..met up with yu jia,sean,jonk,pam,gina and kamun.jonk was really entertaining and funny.made us luff thruout.ahha..
had a really great time catching up with Ka mun.once again,it takes someone mature to know wat to say and when to listen.I'm totally grateful tt she understands.
Been thinking alot after CLCN camp 2006..and i realised...tt one shld nv term another as a best fren when the level of maturity is different,the level of understanding isn't the same..and the chemistry just isn't there.i guess one shld nv be quick to judge.and as best frens,shldn't the other not judge when problems are shared between each other?Best frens are pple who'll tell each other stuff,be supportive,and be understanding.best frens do not assume u're gossipping just because u're bad mouthing someone.it just goes to show she trusts that u were just venting ur anger..and after venting it out...nothing will be said.discussion ends there.
so...i guess i was wrong to assume she was my best fren...but i'm so glad...it's made me realise...tt it's the older ones tt i can count on to listen to my woes...and receive mature comments and help..pple who'll definitely NOT JUDGE me...and pple who're supportive no matter where they are,how busy they are.pple...who've been there,done that and understands me.I'm really grateful because i know at times..u guys are reading my blog and always asks whenever u know i'm going thru a down period.thank you for always praying for me.i really appreciate the many yrs of friendship!thks guys!
as for the younger ones...i guess they shld nv assume me as their best frens...because...i can only lend em a supporting ear,give em advices...but they can't give me the same.
wat does best fren means to me?Honestly?i dun care if i have 1.cos in my eyes...i've more best frens den 1!!and best frens no longer mean doing crazy stuff together...and all tt girly things...different best fren does different stuff...eg..some can be my lending ears...another -a person who does crazy stuff...while another,my bitching/gossipping partner(tt of cos..i've not been doing much.yay!!) and another,my bs mate..so on and so forth.and best frens...does not mean...having one from the same gender.
of cos..FELICIA dearest...u'll always be my BEST FREN!!!i love u!!and i pray tt our friendship will last.as mentioned in ur blog. and the card u wrote to me.it's amazing how God brought this friendship back again eh?
u guys wanna know wat happened?well..to be continued soon!heh..tt's all for now..i'm off to bed!!
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